Anxiety in Children

Anxiety is the mind and body’s response to a possible threat, uncertainty or difficult situation. It can cause worried thoughts, uncomfortable physical sensations and a strong urge to avoid whatever feels frightening. Some anxiety is a normal and protective part of childhood. It helps children recognise danger, prepare for unfamiliar experiences and seek support from trusted adults.

Childhood anxiety becomes a concern when fears or worries are unusually intense, persist over time or interfere with everyday life. An anxious child might avoid school, social activities, sleeping alone, unfamiliar places or separation from a parent. Other children continue participating but experience considerable internal distress that adults do not immediately notice.

Anxiety is not simply attention-seeking, stubbornness or a child choosing to worry. The fear can feel completely real even when the situation appears safe to an adult. With understanding, gradual support and appropriate treatment, most children can learn to manage anxiety and participate more confidently in everyday life.

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Key Message about Anxiety in Children:

Anxiety is a normal part of childhood, but persistent fears and avoidance can interfere with school, sleep, friendships and family life. Learn how anxiety appears in children, when to seek help and which treatments and parenting strategies can support recovery.

What is anxiety in children?

Anxiety involves a combination of thoughts, physical sensations and behaviour. A child might think that something bad will happen, notice their heart racing or stomach hurting, and then try to escape or avoid the situation.

The body’s alarm system is designed to protect a child from danger. When the brain detects a threat, the body prepares to fight, flee or freeze. Breathing might become faster, muscles tense, the heart beats more quickly and attention narrows towards possible danger. This reaction is useful when the threat is genuine.

In anxiety, the alarm system can activate too strongly, too often or in situations that are not actually dangerous. A child might intellectually understand that a dog is behind a secure fence, that a parent will return after school or that making one mistake will not be disastrous. Nevertheless, their body can respond as though there is an immediate threat.

Is anxiety normal during childhood?

Fears and worries are an expected part of development. Babies and toddlers commonly become distressed when separated from familiar caregivers. Preschool children might fear darkness, animals, storms, monsters or unfamiliar people. School-age children often worry about school performance, friendships, injury or family safety.

These fears usually change as children develop greater understanding, independence and coping skills. A developmentally typical fear tends to be temporary, manageable with reassurance and proportionate to the child’s age and circumstances.

Anxiety might require closer attention when it is substantially stronger than expected for the child’s developmental stage, continues for a prolonged period or prevents the child from participating in ordinary activities. For example, separation distress is common in early childhood, but severe and persistent separation fears in an older child might indicate a more significant anxiety problem.

When does normal worry become an anxiety disorder?

An anxiety disorder involves more than occasional nervousness or fear. The anxiety is persistent or recurrent, difficult for the child to control and associated with significant distress or impairment.

Parents might notice that anxiety is affecting the child’s attendance, learning, sleep, friendships, family activities or independence. The child might avoid situations that other children of a similar age can generally manage, require extensive reassurance or experience frequent physical symptoms without a sufficient medical explanation.

Clinicians consider the child’s developmental stage, the intensity and duration of the anxiety, the situations in which it occurs and its impact on everyday functioning. A diagnosis is not based on a child having one fear or experiencing a brief period of stress.

What are the signs of anxiety in a child?

Anxiety can appear through thoughts, emotions, physical complaints and behaviour. Children do not always say that they feel anxious. Younger children might not have the words to explain what is happening, while older children might hide their worries because they feel embarrassed or fear being judged.

A child experiencing anxiety might:

worry repeatedly about possible dangers or mistakes
ask the same reassurance-seeking questions
avoid school, social situations or unfamiliar activities
become distressed when separated from a parent
complain of headaches, nausea or stomach pain
have difficulty falling asleep or sleeping alone
become irritable, tearful, angry or unusually quiet
freeze, cling, refuse or attempt to escape
seek perfection and become distressed by small errors
have trouble concentrating because attention is focused on danger
require routines to occur in a particular way
appear tense, restless, shaky or short of breath.

No single sign confirms an anxiety disorder. The overall pattern and its effect on the child’s life are more informative than any isolated behaviour.

Can anxiety look like anger or difficult behaviour?

Anxiety can appear as anger, defiance, irritability or emotional outbursts. When a child feels threatened or overwhelmed, their nervous system might move into a fight response rather than obvious fear.

A child might shout before school, refuse to enter a classroom, argue about attending a birthday party or become aggressive when asked to sleep alone. The behaviour can look oppositional, but its function might be to escape a situation the child believes they cannot manage.

This does not mean that every instance of challenging behaviour is caused by anxiety. Parents and professionals need to consider what happens before the behaviour, what the child appears to be avoiding and whether fear or uncertainty is driving the reaction. Recognising anxiety underneath the behaviour allows adults to maintain appropriate limits while addressing the reason the child is struggling.

Why does anxiety cause stomach aches and other physical symptoms?

Anxiety activates systems throughout the body. Stress hormones, muscle tension, changes in breathing and altered digestive activity can produce genuine physical sensations such as nausea, stomach pain, headaches, dizziness, trembling, sweating or a racing heart.

Children often notice these sensations before they can identify the emotion behind them. A child might sincerely believe they are physically unwell each morning without recognising that the symptoms intensify before school and improve when the feared situation is removed.

Physical symptoms should not automatically be assumed to be psychological. A GP can assess whether a medical condition might be contributing. When medical explanations have been considered, recurring symptoms linked to particular situations can provide an important clue that anxiety is involved.

What types of anxiety disorders can affect children?

Several anxiety disorders can occur during childhood. The main difference between them is the focus of the child’s fear and the situations that trigger anxiety.

A child can experience more than one type of anxiety. The presentation can also change over time as the child’s development and environment change.

What is separation anxiety disorder in children?

Separation anxiety disorder involves excessive fear about being away from a parent, caregiver or other attachment figure. The child might worry that something terrible will happen to the parent or that an event will permanently separate them.

The child might cling, refuse school, avoid sleeping away from home, follow a parent around the house or repeatedly call to check that the parent is safe. They might experience nightmares, stomach aches or panic-like symptoms when separation is expected.

Some separation anxiety is normal in babies and young children. It becomes a potential disorder when the fear is developmentally inappropriate, unusually severe, persistent and disruptive to the child’s or family’s life.

What is generalised anxiety disorder in children?

Generalised anxiety disorder involves excessive and difficult-to-control worry about several areas of life. A child might worry about school, family health, friendships, natural disasters, being late, making mistakes or events that are unlikely to occur.

The topic of worry can change frequently. Once one concern is resolved, another might take its place. The child might repeatedly seek reassurance, prepare excessively, avoid uncertainty or expect the worst possible outcome.

Children with generalised anxiety can appear perfectionistic, conscientious and eager to please. Because they might behave well and perform strongly, adults can overlook the amount of distress and mental effort involved. Physical tension, sleep problems, fatigue, irritability and poor concentration can accompany the worry.

Social anxiety involves an intense fear of being watched, judged, embarrassed or rejected by other people. A child might worry about speaking in class, meeting unfamiliar children, eating in front of others, performing, attending parties or starting a conversation.

Social anxiety is more than ordinary shyness. A shy child might take time to become comfortable but can eventually participate. A child with social anxiety might remain highly distressed, endure social situations with fear or avoid them altogether.

The child might speak freely at home but become quiet at school, avoid eye contact, refuse to order food or experience nausea before social events. They might desperately want friendships while being too afraid to approach other children.

What is a specific phobia in children?

A specific phobia is an intense and persistent fear of a particular object or situation. Common examples include fears of dogs, spiders, needles, vomiting, storms, heights, darkness or enclosed spaces.

The child’s reaction is much stronger than the actual danger would justify. They might cry, freeze, cling, run away or experience panic-like symptoms when confronted with the feared object. Anticipating the situation can also produce considerable anxiety.

Many childhood fears disappear naturally. Professional support might be appropriate when a fear remains severe, causes substantial distress or restricts family activities, medical care, school participation or the child’s independence.

What is panic disorder in children?

A panic attack is a sudden episode of intense fear accompanied by strong physical sensations. The child might experience a racing heart, chest discomfort, dizziness, trembling, sweating, nausea, breathlessness or a feeling that something catastrophic is happening.

A panic attack can occur as part of several anxiety conditions and does not automatically mean the child has panic disorder. Panic disorder involves recurrent, unexpected panic attacks followed by persistent worry about further attacks or significant changes in behaviour intended to prevent them.

Panic disorder is less common in younger children and becomes more likely during adolescence. Because some physical health conditions can resemble panic symptoms, an appropriate medical and psychological assessment is important.

Is selective mutism an anxiety disorder?

Selective mutism is an anxiety condition in which a child consistently cannot speak in particular social settings despite speaking comfortably in other environments. A child might talk freely at home but be unable to speak at preschool, school or around unfamiliar people.

The child is not deliberately refusing to speak. Anxiety can trigger a freeze response that makes speech feel impossible. Pressure, punishment or repeatedly demanding that the child speak can increase distress.

Support usually involves reducing pressure, building safety and gradually helping the child communicate across increasingly challenging situations. Assessment should also consider speech, language, hearing and developmental factors.

What causes anxiety in children?

Childhood anxiety usually develops through an interaction between biological, psychological and environmental influences. There is rarely one identifiable cause.

Some children are born with a more behaviourally inhibited or sensitive temperament. They might notice potential threats quickly, react strongly to unfamiliar situations and take longer to feel secure. Genetic factors also contribute, meaning anxiety can be more common within some families.

Life experiences can influence how a child interprets danger and uncertainty. Bullying, family conflict, illness, loss, trauma, academic pressure or major transitions can increase anxiety. Children can also learn fearful responses by observing others or repeatedly hearing that particular situations are dangerous.

Parenting does not simply cause an anxiety disorder. However, family responses can unintentionally maintain anxiety when adults consistently remove every feared situation, provide unlimited reassurance or communicate that the child is unable to cope. These responses are understandable attempts to reduce distress, but they can prevent the child from discovering that anxiety can decline and feared outcomes often do not occur.

Is childhood anxiety hereditary?

Anxiety can run in families, but it is not inherited in a simple or inevitable way. A child might inherit characteristics such as emotional sensitivity, threat awareness or behavioural inhibition rather than a particular fear.

Children are also influenced by what they observe. When an adult responds to uncertainty with visible alarm or avoidance, a child might learn that the situation is dangerous. Conversely, parents can model coping by acknowledging their own nervousness while demonstrating calm, gradual action.

A family history of anxiety can increase vulnerability, but it does not determine the child’s future. Protective relationships, coping skills, supportive environments and early treatment can substantially affect how anxiety develops.

Can stressful events cause anxiety in children?

Stressful experiences can trigger or intensify anxiety, particularly when they are unpredictable, prolonged or beyond the child’s coping capacity. Examples include parental separation, bereavement, relocation, school transitions, bullying, illness, disasters or family financial stress.

A temporary increase in worry after a major event does not necessarily indicate an anxiety disorder. Many children recover with safety, routine, emotional support and time.

Persistent symptoms might warrant assessment, especially when the child remains highly watchful, avoids reminders of the event or experiences intrusive memories. In these circumstances, clinicians might also consider trauma-related conditions rather than assuming all symptoms represent a general anxiety disorder.

Is anxiety caused by poor parenting?

Anxiety is not evidence that a parent has failed. Children can develop anxiety in warm, stable and supportive families.

Parents naturally try to protect a distressed child. They might answer repeated questions, allow avoidance or take over difficult tasks because doing so brings immediate relief. This can unintentionally teach the child that the feared situation truly was unsafe or unmanageable.

Treatment often involves helping parents respond in ways that communicate both empathy and confidence: “I understand that this feels frightening, and I believe you can take the next small step.” Parent involvement is intended to strengthen support around the child, not assign blame.

Can screen use make childhood anxiety worse?

Screen use does not provide a complete explanation for an anxiety disorder, but the way technology is used can affect a child’s wellbeing. Distressing content, cyberbullying, social comparison, compulsive checking and exposure to frightening news can contribute to worry.

Late-night screen use can also disrupt sleep, and insufficient sleep can make emotional regulation more difficult. Some children use games, videos or devices to avoid feared situations, which might provide short-term relief while reducing opportunities to develop coping skills.

Parents can support healthy use through age-appropriate content, predictable limits, shared discussion and protection of sleep, physical activity and face-to-face relationships. The goal is not to treat all technology as harmful but to consider whether its timing, content or function is contributing to the child’s difficulties.

How does anxiety affect a child’s sleep?

Anxiety can make it difficult for a child to settle because quiet bedtime periods leave more space for worried thoughts. The child might fear darkness, separation, nightmares, burglars, illness or something happening while the family sleeps.

They might delay bedtime, repeatedly leave their room, request multiple checks or insist that a parent remain nearby. Poor sleep can then increase irritability, physical discomfort and anxiety the following day.

Predictable routines, gradual changes and calm responses can help. It is generally more effective to build the child’s ability to tolerate bedtime anxiety in manageable steps than to abruptly remove all support or allow avoidance to expand indefinitely.

How does anxiety affect school attendance and learning?

Anxiety can interfere with concentration because the child’s attention is directed towards possible threats. They might struggle to remember instructions, complete work, answer questions or attempt unfamiliar tasks.

School anxiety can also cause lateness, frequent visits to the sick bay, repeated requests to go home or complete school refusal. The child might fear separation, academic failure, bullying, social judgement, noise, sensory overload or a particular event at school.

Avoidance can quickly become self-reinforcing. Staying home reduces anxiety immediately, which makes avoidance more likely the next time. Meanwhile, missed work and social disconnection can make returning feel even more difficult.

Families and schools should respond early and work together to identify the source of the anxiety. A gradual return plan, predictable support person, reduced initial demands and appropriate learning or wellbeing adjustments might be required.

Can perfectionism be a sign of childhood anxiety?

Perfectionism can be associated with anxiety when a child believes mistakes are dangerous, humiliating or evidence that they are inadequate. The child might spend excessive time checking work, repeatedly erase answers, avoid starting tasks or become distressed when their result is less than perfect.

Some perfectionistic children appear highly motivated, but their behaviour is driven more by fear than healthy ambition. They might procrastinate because beginning creates a possibility of failure, or refuse activities they cannot immediately perform well.

Parents can help by praising effort, flexibility, problem-solving and recovery from mistakes rather than only flawless outcomes. Adults can also model making ordinary mistakes without excessive self-criticism.

Why does my child constantly ask for reassurance?

Reassurance reduces uncertainty and can calm anxiety in the moment. A child might repeatedly ask whether they will be safe, whether a parent is angry, whether they are sick or whether an upcoming event will go well.

The relief is usually temporary. Because the child relies on another person to remove uncertainty, the question soon returns. This creates a reassurance cycle in which increasingly frequent answers are needed to produce the same sense of safety.

Parents do not need to become cold or dismissive. They can acknowledge the feeling, answer essential questions once and then redirect the child towards coping: “We have already checked the plan. What could you tell yourself when that worry returns?”

Should I let my anxious child avoid frightening situations?

Avoidance is understandable because it reduces distress quickly. In the long term, however, repeated avoidance can strengthen anxiety. The child does not get the opportunity to learn that they can cope, that anxiety naturally decreases or that the feared outcome is less likely than expected.

This does not mean forcing a terrified child into an overwhelming situation. Flooding the child can increase fear and damage trust. A more effective approach is gradual exposure, sometimes called a stepladder approach.

The feared task is divided into manageable steps. A child who fears dogs might begin by looking at a drawing, then viewing a photograph, watching a calm dog from a distance and eventually standing closer with support. The child practises each step until it becomes manageable before progressing.

Gradual exposure is a central component of effective psychological treatment for many childhood anxiety problems. Parents can seek professional guidance when the fear is severe or they are unsure how to choose appropriate steps.

How should I respond when my child is anxious?

Begin by acknowledging the child’s experience without confirming that the situation is dangerous. A response such as “I can see that your body is telling you this is scary” validates the feeling. It can then be followed by confidence: “We will take this one step at a time.”

Encourage the child to notice what anxiety feels like and name the worried prediction. Ask what they think will happen, how likely it is and what they could do if the situation became difficult.

During intense anxiety, lengthy reasoning might not be effective. The child might first need calm breathing, reduced stimulation, physical grounding and a steady adult presence. Once the alarm response settles, parent and child can discuss what happened and plan the next manageable step.

Should I tell my child there is nothing to worry about?

Telling a child “there is nothing to worry about” is usually well intentioned, but it can feel dismissive because the child’s fear is real to them. It also does not teach them what to do when anxiety returns.

A more helpful response separates the feeling from the danger. A parent might say, “Your worry is giving you a strong warning, but we have checked the situation and you are safe.”

The goal is not to prove that nothing uncomfortable will ever happen. Children benefit from learning that uncertainty is part of life and that they can cope even when they cannot receive a guarantee.

Can breathing exercises cure childhood anxiety?

Slow breathing and relaxation can reduce physical arousal, but they are coping tools rather than complete treatments. They can help a child remain in a difficult situation long enough to practise coping.

Breathing should be taught when the child is calm rather than introduced for the first time during panic. The child might practise breathing gently into their abdomen, slowing the exhale or using a simple visual cue.

Relaxation should not become another form of avoidance. A child does not need to eliminate every anxious sensation before taking action. A central treatment goal is learning, “I can feel anxious and still do what matters.”

How is anxiety diagnosed in children?

There is no single test that independently diagnoses childhood anxiety. Assessment usually involves conversations with the child and parents, developmental and medical history, information about school and standardised questionnaires where appropriate.

The clinician considers the focus, intensity, frequency and duration of the child’s fears. They assess avoidance, physical symptoms, functional impairment and whether the anxiety is developmentally expected.

Information from several settings can be valuable because children might behave differently at home and school. Some children conceal anxiety in public and become distressed after returning home. Others function comfortably with family but struggle significantly in peer or classroom environments.

An assessment should also consider medical conditions, developmental differences, learning problems, trauma, depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder and other explanations for the child’s symptoms.

Who can assess anxiety in a child in Australia?

Parents can begin by speaking with their child’s GP. Depending on the child’s needs, the GP might recommend support from a psychologist, paediatrician, child psychiatrist, school psychologist or local child and adolescent mental health service.

Parents can also discuss their observations with the child’s educator or school wellbeing team. Schools cannot necessarily diagnose an anxiety disorder, but they can provide useful information and help implement classroom support.

Urgency depends on the severity of the symptoms. Early advice is appropriate when anxiety is beginning to restrict the child’s life rather than waiting until avoidance becomes entrenched.

What other conditions can look like anxiety?

Several conditions can produce behaviour that resembles anxiety. ADHD can cause restlessness and avoidance of tasks requiring sustained attention. Autism can involve distress around change, uncertainty, communication or sensory experiences. Specific learning disorder can lead to fear around reading, writing or mathematics.

Physical health conditions can cause palpitations, breathlessness, fatigue, dizziness or gastrointestinal symptoms. Sleep deprivation, medication effects and substance use in adolescents should also be considered.

Trauma, depression and obsessive-compulsive disorder can include significant fear and avoidance but might require different treatment formulations. A comprehensive assessment helps clarify what is driving the child’s distress.

Can a child have anxiety and another condition?

Yes. Childhood anxiety commonly occurs alongside other mental health, developmental or learning conditions. A child might experience anxiety with ADHD, autism, depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, a learning disorder or a tic disorder.

Anxiety can also develop as a secondary difficulty. For example, a child with an undiagnosed learning disorder might become anxious because classroom tasks repeatedly expose an area of difficulty.

Identifying co-occurring conditions matters because each can influence treatment. Support should address the whole child rather than assuming every difficulty results from anxiety.

What treatments help childhood anxiety?

Psychological treatment is generally the main intervention for childhood anxiety. Cognitive behavioural therapy, commonly called CBT, has strong evidence and helps children understand the relationship between thoughts, feelings, physical sensations and behaviour.

CBT usually includes gradual exposure to feared situations. The child learns to approach rather than continually avoid, test anxious predictions and develop more flexible ways of responding to uncertainty.

Treatment often includes parents, particularly for younger children. Parents learn how to support brave behaviour, reduce unhelpful accommodation and respond consistently to anxiety.

The child’s school might also be involved when anxiety affects attendance, classroom participation or peer relationships. Most childhood anxiety disorders improve with appropriate psychological treatment.

What happens during cognitive behavioural therapy for anxiety?

CBT begins by helping the child recognise anxiety and understand how the body’s alarm response works. The child learns to identify anxious predictions and the behaviours used to feel safe.

The therapist and child then develop a graded plan for facing feared situations. Repeated practice allows the child to gather new evidence: anxiety can rise and fall without escape, feared outcomes do not always occur, and difficult situations can be managed.

CBT is not simply positive thinking. The child is not told that nothing bad can happen. They learn to assess risk more realistically, tolerate uncertainty and respond effectively when discomfort occurs.

Between-session practice is important because skills must transfer into everyday life. Parent and school involvement can help the child practise consistently.

Is medication used to treat anxiety in children?

Medication is not necessary for every anxious child. Psychological therapy is commonly used first, particularly when symptoms are mild or moderate.

Medication might be considered when anxiety is severe, substantially impairs functioning, has not improved sufficiently with psychological treatment or prevents the child from participating in therapy. It might also be considered when another condition requires treatment.

Medication decisions should be made by a clinician with appropriate expertise after discussing potential benefits, side effects and monitoring. Medication is usually most effective as part of a broader plan rather than the only form of support.

How can parents help an anxious child at home?

Parents can help by establishing predictable routines, preparing children for changes and encouraging manageable steps towards feared situations. The balance is important: the child needs compassion without receiving the message that anxiety always requires escape.

Notice and praise courage rather than waiting for anxiety to disappear. A child can be brave while frightened. Specific encouragement such as “You answered even though your voice felt shaky” helps the child recognise progress.

Parents can also support sleep, physical activity, regular meals and opportunities for connection. These foundations do not cure an anxiety disorder, but they improve the child’s overall capacity to regulate stress.

How can educators support a child with anxiety?

Educators can provide a predictable environment, clear instructions and advance notice of changes. A trusted staff member, quiet arrival routine or planned break space might help the child remain at school while developing coping skills.

Adjustments should support participation rather than permanently remove every source of anxiety. For example, a child with social anxiety might initially present to a teacher, then a small group and eventually the class.

Communication between the family, school and treating professional is valuable when anxiety affects attendance or learning. Everyone should understand the agreed plan so that the child receives consistent messages about safety and coping.

What should parents avoid doing when a child is anxious?

Parents should avoid mocking, shaming or punishing a child for being afraid. These responses increase distress and can teach the child to conceal symptoms.

It is also unhelpful to provide endless reassurance, speak for the child in every situation or automatically cancel activities whenever anxiety appears. Although these responses reduce distress temporarily, they can strengthen avoidance.

Parents should not force the child abruptly into a situation that greatly exceeds their coping capacity. Effective support combines empathy, clear expectations and gradual practice.

Will my child grow out of anxiety?

Some childhood fears disappear naturally as the child matures. A persistent anxiety disorder is less likely to resolve simply through waiting, particularly when avoidance has begun to restrict the child’s life.

Anxiety can change form over time. A young child’s separation fears might later become school, social or performance worries. Untreated anxiety can also affect learning, friendships and confidence.

This does not mean that anxiety will necessarily become a lifelong problem. Early recognition and evidence-based treatment can help children recover and develop durable coping skills.

When should I seek professional help for my child?

Seek professional advice when anxiety is persistent, severe or interfering with your child’s education, sleep, friendships, family relationships or everyday activities.

Other reasons to seek help include frequent physical complaints, school refusal, panic attacks, substantial distress around separation, extreme avoidance or anxiety that continues to worsen despite supportive strategies.

A child who talks about self-harm, suicide or not wanting to be alive requires urgent professional attention. In an immediate emergency in Australia, call Triple Zero (000) or attend the nearest hospital emergency department.

This information is educational and does not replace assessment or treatment from a qualified health professional.

Common parent questions about anxiety in children

Is my child anxious or just shy?

Shyness is a temperament characteristic and does not necessarily cause significant distress or impairment. An anxious child might strongly want to participate but avoid the situation because they expect embarrassment, rejection or another threatening outcome. Professional advice might be appropriate when social fear persistently restricts friendships, school participation or ordinary activities.

Can a toddler have anxiety?

Toddlers can experience fear and anxiety, although many fears are developmentally expected. Concern is more appropriate when distress is unusually intense, persists over time or substantially interferes with sleep, separation, play or family life.

Can anxiety cause school refusal?

Yes. A child might resist school because of separation fears, social anxiety, bullying, academic difficulty, sensory distress or fear of failure. School refusal should be investigated rather than treated simply as disobedience, because prolonged absence can make returning increasingly difficult.

Can anxiety make a child feel sick?

Yes. Anxiety can cause genuine nausea, stomach pain, headaches, dizziness, shaking, sweating and a racing heart. Recurrent or concerning physical symptoms should still be discussed with a health professional so that medical causes can be considered.

Does reassurance help an anxious child?

Brief reassurance and emotional support can help, but repeated reassurance can maintain anxiety when the child becomes dependent on another person to remove uncertainty. Parents can acknowledge the fear and then encourage the child to use coping skills.

Should I remove everything that makes my child anxious?

Removing genuine dangers is appropriate, but consistently removing ordinary, safe situations can strengthen anxiety. Gradual and supported exposure helps the child learn that they can cope. Severe fears should be addressed with professional guidance.

Is childhood anxiety the parent’s fault?

No. Anxiety develops through a complex combination of biological, developmental and environmental factors. Parent involvement in treatment is intended to strengthen the child’s recovery, not blame the family.

Can anxiety and ADHD occur together?

Yes. A child can have both anxiety and ADHD. Anxiety can also make concentration difficult, so a comprehensive assessment is important when the source of attention problems is unclear.

Can anxiety cause tantrums?

Anxiety can contribute to tantrums or emotional outbursts when a child feels trapped, overwhelmed or unable to explain their fear. Adults should consider what the child is anticipating or trying to escape while still maintaining safe behavioural boundaries.

Is anxiety treatable in children?

Yes. Childhood anxiety is treatable, and many children improve substantially with cognitive behavioural therapy, gradual exposure, parent support and appropriate school strategies. Medication might be considered in some circumstances under professional supervision.